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Looking for a connection I've been on this for a while now, trying to make some connections. I am looking for a woman, with whom, I can make a connection. I've responded to a bunch of ads, only occasionally are my responses answered in return. It just seems hard to find a way to separate the good guys from the bad--to make me stand out when you have 1,ish lbs). I am quiet. My personality is only very open and outgoing around my closest friends. Online I am able to open up as well. So, I sorts just got into it, and really like chatting. I feel I have missed out on some things in life. There are experiences and relationships I haven't had. After some chatting, I've had others say things to me like "if you weren't already married, I would date you," etc. This is why i say I have no real expectations. I have fantasies about being with other women (what man doesn't). I am not looking to end my current situation in anyway. But, I've barely had any experiences with other girls/women. Very few as friends, none as girlfriends. I got married cause I thought that was it for my life. Now, come to fine out later that I could have had more. Being discrete is totally a must--no one can know what is happening, no matter how close. And, it might sound stupid, but I want a friend as well. I dislike the term "friends with benefits." I don't know why I really can't stand the term, maybe cause it conjures up of a couple people, getting together just for sex, and then that's it--no real friendship. I would like a friend--someone to be able to talk to/ with and hang out (although I don't know how much we'd be able to do since I would need it to be discreet.) Someone who understand that I don't have a lot of free time, but when I do, I'd like to fit something in. Maybe come over, we make dinner together, watch a movie (or play depending on the girls' personality--since I am still a big kid, lol). If things go forward from there in a romantic way, I wouldn't be opposed. So, I am not looking to be taken care off. This guy is no bum--I work, I play, I socialize. I like to have a good time, and I would like to share some time with another lovely woman. I think there has to be a connection of the minds, so to speak. A mutual understanding of what we are both looking for, and then take it from there. Does that make sense? After reading this (if you were able to sit through the whole thing) and you want to talk with me further, then send me an . Thanks.

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